David Karl Mallette 1963 – 2017
David Karl Mallette (March 11, 1963 – November 30, 2017)
It is with deep sorrow the family of Dave Mallette announce his sudden and unexpected passing on Thursday, November 30.
Devoted and loving husband to Jessica who partnered in raising their beautiful children Michael (Morgan), Nicholas, and Caela (Declan). Son of Karl Mallette (Bev) and Betty Mallette (Mayberry) and brother to Jenny, Cathy, Mary, Sue and Richard. Loyal son in law to Lee and Nobi Kubota and brother in law to Steve Sherman (Gayle).
Dave was an incredibly proud father who spoke of his children’s accomplishments often and with the most sincere joy. He was an active philanthropist and advocate for causes he felt passionate about. Unit President of CAV (Canadian Army Veterans) and recent member of The Colour Guard, Highland Creek Branch The Royal Canadian Legion. This was an aspect of his life that brought him so much fullfillment. He was known to the people of CAV as ‘Royal’ – in recognition of the Royal Star Bike he rode.
Dave was an admitted ‘geek’ who adored Star Trek, Captain Scarlet, and Thunderbirds. His eclectic taste in music was an important therapeutic outlet. One of his most favourite activities was snuggling in with Jessica to watch Coronation Street. His love of cars was a shared passion with his son Michael, and they would often sit for hours sharing pictures and videos of anything motorized. He was an avid movie-goer, an activity he loved to share with his son Nicholas, usually followed by some Wendy’s burgers. He was overjoyed to listen to and share Caela’s music with all those he loved.
There are no words to describe the deep pain of his loss. David was a larger than life presence who lit up any room he enetered. He touched so many souls with his kindness and would only want this world he is no longer a part of to carry on with just that: kindness.
Dave’s Celebration of Life will be held Wednesday, December 13 at The Royal Canadian Legion Branch 258. Please feel free to drop by and honour Dave with his family and friends between the hours of 4pm – 8pm.
The Royal Canadian Legion is located at:
45 Lawson Road
Toronto, ON
M1C 2J1
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations be made in Dave’s name to any of the following charities he and his family care so deeply for:
Tony Stacy Centre for Veterans Care
Offer Condolence for the family of David Karl Mallette 1963 – 2017
Dennis Yee
My deepest condolences.
I am so sorry to hear about Dave’s passing.
Dennis and Freda Yee
Diana LeBlanc and Devin Hilge
Dave was an amazing person, who always willing to listen and always lend a helping hand. I am so honoured to have known him.
My heart goes out to his family during this time.
Jennifer Laing
I had the great pleasure of getting to know Dave a little bit through Tony Stacey Centre and the CAV. His kindness, sincerity and incredible positivity was very evident from the moment I met him. Dave’s infectious smile and kind eyes will be missed by many. What a loss to this world. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Lois Logie
I am absolutely devastated by this news. I am thinking of everyone and especially of Jessica. I just don’t know what to say. This is heartbreaking and I am in shock. Love and prayers to all. Lois Logie xo
Patricia & Scott Norris
Our sincere Condolences to Jess and the family. It was a shock to hear this. Prayers for you all. Dave was a great person. So sad to hear of his passing.
Catherine Hilge
I am so sorry to hear of Dave’s passing. He was such a caring person, who was always ready to lend a helping hand. He was so good to the residents, staff and board of Tony Stacey Centre. He will be sorely missed. My condolences to Jessica and family.
Sandy fisher
My most heartfelt condolences to all of you. God bless Daves sweet soul.
Karey Ross
To learn of Dave’s passing comes as a great shock and sadness; my deepest sympathy to Jessica, his children and the Mallette family.
Christine
Oh Jess I am so sorry to hear this …
Neala Taylor
I am sadded by the loss of Dave. He was always so helping and giving to Tony Stacey Centre for Veterans Care and he will missed on the Board. I enjoyed working with him and thank him for his kindness during his time with us. My thoughts are with Jessica and the family.
David Morgan
This is a real shocker! I met ‘Royal’ Dave through motorcycling and attended my very first Friday the 13th. with him in Port Dover it was cold and trying to snow. Dave was with a sister that day and I learned then that family was very important to Dave. This is very sad news indeed.
Shari & Doug
Our deepest condolences to the family….we met Dave through the many years with the Cav…was always a pleasure when we crossed paths….will be missed but never forgotten….RIP “Royal”Dave????
Doug (Stormbringer) & Shari (Swmbo) Ortona Unit London
Sally Martin & Ken Tchir
Heartfelt condolences to all of Dave’s loved ones during this saddest of times. So sudden, much too young, seems such a senseless loss for you all. He was part of a wonderful family. May happy memories bring sweet comfort when needed most.
Jennifer Giles
This news has been an incredible shock to so many. So sudden and so unfair. Huge condolences from my family to yours, Jessica.
MB
My deepest sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time. While words fail to capture the pain of losing a loved one, we look forward to the time when words will fail to capture the joy of seeing our dead loved ones again here on a paradise earth as God intended to be, “without pain, without death, without sorrow”~Revelation 21:4.
Pam Winter
Deepest condolences to Jess and her children. I remember Dave so fondly from our high school days. Always sweet and smiling and so generous and thoughtful. My heart is with you at this difficult time. Love and light.
Pam Winter
Julie Turmel
Dave has touched so many lives, and people who have known him will always keep a part of him with them, be it a sense of compassion and truly caring for people, helping and encouraging them to surpass themselves. He had an amazing philosophy of life, enjoying every moment. I cannot describe Dave without saying that he had a way with word that is rarely seen. I am thankful that he was able to spend a lot more time with his family these last few months. I’m also thankful to have known and worked with Dave. I would like to give my deepest condolences to the family and the many friends. My only consolation is that he is watching over all of us, while soaring/riding above the clouds. I will never forget!
Dale Troia
It’s not often I do not know what to say. What a loss… I’m so sorry for your loss. Memories of Dave and his kind demeanor will be missed. Chats about life, cars or the CAV Dave was knowable. He is and will be missed.
Rosalind Billers
I am so saddened and in shock of this terrible news of Dave.
My deepest sympathy to Jessica and the Family,
Dave was my manager then director for several years, and just an amazing man ,Always there to help in business and personal situations.
He will be deeply missed.I am at a loss for words…
What a shame for this young man who just lately has been enjoying his life to the fullest……
My thoughts and prayers are with you all…
Mark Sherman and family
Jessica, I have no words to express my shock and sadness at reading this news… When I think of Dave I think of his ferocious passion, kindness and love of life and family.
May the love of family and friends surround you, support you, and carry you through this grief.
David Adamson
It is with deep regret to have learned of Dave’s passing. For the short time I had know him, I found him to be a caring and committed person dedicated to assisting others through his involvement with CAV, the Tony Stacey Centre for Veterans Care and as a member of Legion Branch 258 Colour Guard. Condolences to his wife Jessica and family. He will be sorely missed.
Carmela Gallo
With my whole heart I extend my deepest condolences for your loss. During this time of mourning I pray you will be surrounded with beautiful memories, warm embraces of love and words of encouragement.
Dave was definitely a character. His last message to me on Facebook was him wearing a Hulk tie stating ” you won’t like me when I’m angry!” ” Very appropriate, don’t ya think?!” I couldn’t stop laughing. It was always hard to be in a bad mood when he would come right up to your face (entering the comfort zone) and smiled and asked if everything was alright.
He will be missed dearly, but we have the joy of remembering who he was and the impact he left behind.
Much love and prayers to the family.
Sincerely,
Carmela Gallo
Irene Martin
Karl and Beverly
So sorry to hear of your son’s passing. My heart goes out to you both. My deepest condolences to you and all the family.
Peter Koning
I remember Dave from high school days. He was one of the good guys. So sorry he’s gone.
Natalie
My deepest condolences. I had worked for the same company as Dave and although we had not worked directly with each other, we have often had some great conversations at lunch break. I am beyond shocked in his passing. I am sorry to hear this news.
Lesley Jack Halcro
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Jess. I am thinking of you and hoping you will find comfort in knowing that Dave was such a positive light who radiated a pure love for life and for you all. That light will shine on in my memories of him.
Stacy Sherman
I was shocked by this sad news. I had the pleasure of meeting Dave as I got to know Mark’s extended family. He was always smiling, kind and generous. I know this must be heartbreaking for the family and my heart goes out to all of you. We hold you in our prayers.???? Sending our love… Stacy Sherman and family
Sonya Koopmans
My deepest sympathies to the family, I had the pleasure of working with Dave and could always be guaranteed a good laugh when we spoke. My prayers go out to you but know he is always with you and watching over you.
Fatima Maiato
Dave you were one of the kindest persons I had met and dealt with. Also quick to jump in and provide assistance and always with a smile and positive attitude. My sincere condolences to Dave’s family, your in my prayers during this very difficult time.
Fatima Maiato and Eduard Guzman
Grace Henry
I am so sorry to hear this sad news, my deepest condolences to the family.
Moyra
Upon hearing this news last week I was completely shocked and saddened, even questioned if they had the right person. I had viewed a video that he had posted while enjoying the peacefulness of the lake that morning . To find out that it was he had passed that very same day was devasting. My heart breaks for Jessica and his family that he was taken away so suddenly. Condolences to the family.
Elvira Ciambella
My deepest sympathies to Dave’s family. I am so sorry for your sudden loss. We worked together remotely (I am in Montreal) and Dave was always ready to lend a hand to help solve a problem and during each conversation, he managed to throw in a joke, most of the time it was a sarcastic take on a current event . In the spring, we attended a leadership training session. During lunch over three days, he proudly shared stories of his kids, wife and other family members. We discussed volunteer work and his eyes lit up! He was a terrific team player with a wonderful sense of humor and will be greatly missed.
David McConnachie
I, like many, am truly devastated to hear of the Dave’s passing. As a member of his extended family (by marriage), I met Dave when we were both little lads, and I had the great pleasure of calling him a friend throughout the years, first at Malvern CI and then via Facebook and the odd family gathering. His love for his family was always the most important part of his life, and I, like many, enjoyed his updates as he embraced the goodness that life had to offer.
Sincerest condolences to those nearest to Dave, and may the sorrow you feel be softened by the many wonderful memories and the love and support by Dave’s extended clan of friends, comrades and pals.
Candice Leung
I offer my deepest condolences for such a unfortunate loss. I had the privilege of knowing Dave through Nick-his son. It was never expected that the father of your friends would make such a big impression but Dave did. One year we got together to distribute supplies to the less fortunate, other times he drove us to the movies or just came out to say hello. He was always the ‘cool parent’ – the one that was supportive, caring and down to earth. My heart hurts for Nick and all of Dave’s family and friends. We will miss him greatly.
Dennis Budgell
We are very sorry for your loss.
Lilian Pilapil
My deepest sympathy to Jessica and family. May Eternal light shine upon him and may his soul rest in peace.
John Wilson ADP
I worked with Dave at ADP, I am deeply saddened by this news. My most sincere sympathies to Dave’s family, I know this is an incredible loss for you all. I can only hope, that you are able to make some sense out of what has happened and find peace amongst all of this.
Maria L. Gomes-Freitas
I would like to share with all of you what I wrote in the book we made for Dave when he left ADP:
“My dear friend, Dave, I want to put in writing, so you can have this note forever to remind you what a wonderful human being you are and the enlightened soul you possess.
As you have told me, the proudest and most significant achievement you took away working at ADP was your relationships with the people you mentored. The gifts you brought to us came from the same experiences that have brought you tears and suffering. You are giving, full of empathy, sympathy and respect for all. We all love you for it! You are truly missed.
As for me, Dave, you have been the one that has brought all my previous working experience to a pinnacle. All the doubts and concerns that I may have had regarding my abilities, experiences, knowledge and work ethic have all been at their peak working for you.
You have given me so much, Dave – you can never know how much it means to me. You have VALIDATED me in every respect, and have made me stronger and fearless. I felt I could do anything with your guidance and support and it couldn’t have happened at a better time in my life. ”
Dave’s passing has stunned and shocked me and I am grieving as if he was my family member. It just goes to show you the impact he had on my life and those around him, even though it was just a short six years that we knew each other. But Dave will always be with me, as I plan to keep his memory alive and he will continue all with those who love him.
Jessica, you were the heart of his heart, and his family his joy. My love to you all and we at this time are all connected through this man we love called Dave Karl Mallette. I know your soul is where it belongs and you are now saying to yourself “wow, did I do all of that”? Yes, you did.
Shelley Roberts
So sorry Bev and Carl on the loss of your son…. My deepest sympathy to you and your family
Trapper Cane MSM CD KStG
It was my Great Honour and Pleasure to know Royal thanks to the countless hours he dedicated to paying tribute to our Nations Heroes as a CAV member, and CAV Leader.
He was a Devoted son, brother and husband, a dedicated citizen, Community leader and friend to Many!
I will Never Forget his Strength and Honour at the Heartfelt repatriations of our Afghanistan Fallen, a duty he took on Proudly, as well as his stellar work in direct support of Tony Stacey Center.
My personal, and our CAV familys Deepest Condolences on the passing of a true Gentleman!!
Mike Bolwell
David, you touched Sue and I in such a wonderful and helpful way when our best pal Marky passed. I will never forget what you and Jessica did for his memorial. And the love you both showed us and our little girl at your backyard parties. I will always remember you whenever I play the two of my songs that you wrote the lyrics for so many years ago. All our love and prayers to your family.
Brux Brulé
My deepest condolences to Dave’s family and friends. I knew “Royal” Dave through the SCRC and the various charity MC events we attended. He was a wonderful guy and will truly be missed. RIP Brother.
Lisa and Gary Rotman
Jessica,
It’s been a long time since we have been in touch but wanted to express our sadness and shock in hearing the news of Dave. Please know that you and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers.
George (Jed) Radchenko
I’m truly sorry to hear of your loss Jess, Dave was a good lad. My sincere condolences to you and the kids.
Norm
You’ll be missed budd. Riding with you was always a joy. My pegs will always be down for you to share a ride. Off into the sunset my friend. God Speed!!
The Windrim Family
It is so hard to believe that a guy who celebrated his ‘Studio 54’ birthday this year is no longer with us. I love that he went out dancing- what a lovely shared moment for you to treasure Jess. We will all miss him but not the way you will. I hope you are able to recall and enjoy all those great moments of joy and laughter as a solace now and moving forward. We have every faith in your strength and resilience but know that many people ourselves included will love and support you all on the journey ahead.
Rob Dougald
To Dave’s family I can’t even imagine your loss. I met Dave through motorcyling and shared his passion of riding and supporting military families. I can’t count how many military repatriation ceremonies I attended with Dave. He was always the contact person and was always there for so many people. I always enjoyed our times together. Dave was such a positive influence on so many people and so giving of his time and knowledge. I for one will miss his stories and his warm personality. May you all be strong for each other as he was a great man and proud father. Dave will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to spend time with him
Mohammad Nawaz Peer Ahmud ADP
I know Dave from ADP, he was always sharp and knew exactly what to do in every situation.
His going away is quite sudden and we will all miss him.
Helen & Kevin Schneider
Our deepest sympathy to Jess and family. Dave was such a lovely, friendly face on Merrill Avenue, he always had a kind word and warm hello for us and our kids. He will be greatly missed.
Franklyn McRae
Dave was a great man who always put a smile on my face whenever I saw him. He will be dearly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Jessica, you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. Love Always, Franklyn & Family
Ralph (Merlin) Kettlewell
I am very sorry to hear about and saddened by the news of Dave’s (Royal) passing. It was a pleasure to have had the opportunity to ride along side him within the CAV; he was our unit President and brought with him a deep passion for supporting our veteran’s care and well-being.
He will be truly missed and will always be remembered.
My condolences and deepest sympathies to the Mallette family.
Ed Sparling
My sincerest condolences to Jessica and Dave’s Family. I have known Dave for a short while through his commitment to the Tony Stacey Center for Veterans Care. I have always found Dave to be very positive and totally supportive to the needs of the Veterans, Residents and Staff at the Tony Stacey Center. His smile and cheerful greetings will always be be remembered.
Elizabeth Williams
I’m so very, very sad to hear of Dave’s passing. He and I worked together at ADP, and I know he was so excited for his next work adventure. I will remember him fondly for his compassion and his devotion to inclusiveness and diversity and for his work on behalf of veterans. My very deepest sympathies to you all.
Helen Vuletin
I am so deeply saddened to hear of Dave’s passing. He was a wonderful colleague and friend who always took the time to stop by and find out how I was doing. He will be truly missed. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
James
Such a difficult and unexpected loss. My love and support to the whole family and the many friends who have all been deeply affected.
Diane Hill-Rose
I don’t know what to say. God speed Dave. Black side down. I shall miss you so much.
Laurie and Family
Incomprehensible….. what an incredible and beautiful force in Dave touching and teaching all he came into contact with. His smile, the twinkle and the laughter in his eyes culminating in so many conversations not spoken with words. His sheer love for family and all things children are just a few of the gifts we will hold close to our hearts.
We offer all means of our love and support Jess and family that you may somehow find the way through this tragedy…..
Mike and Darlene Smith
Our condolences to the family, Dave was such a wonderful man, we can’t believe such a life force has been snuffed out. He was an icon in the CAV for the Tony Stacey Center. He will be greatly missed .
Barbara
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, it was a joy to know David
Hendrik Steenkamp
My deepest sympathies to Dave’s family. I am so sorry for your loss. I have worked with Dave for the last 4 years in both his capacity as Facilities Leader for Canada as well as the leader for Pride Canada. He was always ready to support people, to work through challenges and he did this all with a great sense of humor 🙂 I was guaranteed a laugh and to feel better on any day after an interaction with Dave. His support for the Pride BRG as a straight ally, was invaluable in getting this BRG off the ground in Canada. I will remember Dave as a real humanitarian, always working towards diversity and inclusion.
Eileen O
I’m so sorry for your loss. The entire family is in my prayers for strength and peace during this difficult time.
Kathy Mallett
Thoughts and prayers to family and friends.
Kathy Reardon
Thoughts and prayers to family and friends.
Sheila Barstead Armstrong.
Bev and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Hugs.
Kelly & Zach
Such devastating news and hard to find the words to express what a tremendous loss this is. To read all these wonderful messages and see the impact Dave had on so many lives is truly touching and heartwarming. His love for his family and friends was immeasurable and his kindness to others endless. He had the greatest laugh and as others have mentioned, that twinkle in his eyes and best of all he gave the biggest hugs and you always had to let go first as he never would. Our most heartfelt condolences to Jess and the family and all those lucky enough to have been a part of his journey.
Darlene Wilton
Karl, Beverley, and family…..sorry to hear of your sons passing. I can tell you from experience that there is no deeper pain than losing a child. Remember the good times and cherish the memories. Lean on one another……take care! Much love to you both!
Arlene Cedilnik
I am so sorry to hear of Dave’s death. Although I didn’t know him well, the fact that he was your loved one, Jessica, tells me that he was a good and precious person. My thoughts are with you and your children, and all the family.
Darren Companion
Dave will be missed,
My deepest sympathy to his family. I would chat with Dave during lunch time when he worked at ADP with me, he and I would talk about Star Trek , movies and all other things that popped up. I would greet him as Captain when ever I saw him, he was a gentle passionate person whom was a great soul to know.
He will be missed
Darren Companion
Don Ioi
Jessica,
Karen and I just heard the sad news. Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Dave was a very special person that we will miss dearly. We are very sorry for your loss.
Love, Karen and Don
Lori Pickering
Perennial friends are those who were alongside as we navigated the turbulent waters of youth.
On occasion we cross paths, sharing conversation and the easy laughter that bridges aging with timelessness.
We confirm in one another the fledgling selves upon which our lives have been built, to whatever requirement,
reminding us to believe, to stay determined in the daily grind.
The timelessness remains here and now, as spirit takes flight.
Extraordinarily warm-hearted and open-minded, Dave touched so many walks of life.
With sincerest condolences Jess and family, may peace and strength light the way.
~ Lori Pickering
We may sometimes feel that we can’t do much as individuals, but humanity is made up of individuals; we can make a difference. – Dalai Lama
Lise Marchildon-Leithead
So sorry Jess to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lisa and Ike
We are thinking of you during this difficult time and sending love Jess. Our deepest sympathies and condolences.
Monika Calvert
With my deepest condolences to the family. I can not tell you how very sorry I am that he had to leave you so early in his life. He was a very good man
and will be missed by us all.
Toni Nixon
My deepest sympathies to your family during this difficult time.
I have offered lamps to be lit for Dave and your family for 49 days at our Buddhist monastery Karma Triyana Dharmachakra.
Buddhist lamp offerings are traditionally offered for 49 days when someone dies. The gift of light and the accompanying prayers help to bring about less suffering and greater peace in times of loss, uncertainty and death.
Dave Butt
Dave, Thank you….. for being a wonderful father to my daughter Caela and to Morgan(a young lady we always considered part of the family).
For giving Caela brothers, two incredible young men who will most certainly make the world a better place, they changed her life in so many ways.
For being a wonderful husband to Jessica, you changed her life in so many ways.
For being a good man in a world where there are not so many.
For being there for me.
Until the next time we get to ride again, you are with us, guiding and protecting us.
Always
Dave, Simona, and Toni
Melissa Perry
My deepest condolences.
Donna
Are thoughts and prayers are with the family through this difficult time The Chrisp Family ❤️
Lisa Fullerton
My deepest condolences to you Jessica, the boys and family on this huge loss. The caring, loving and funny Dave I knew, will be forever missed. He was not afraid to express his heartfelt feelings and was a dotting and wonderful father. My thoughts and love are with you at this very difficult time.
Brian Brodersen
Jess and family, I am so very sorry to hear about Dave. I remember fondly all the good times on Tempest Ave, hanging out with our friends and neighbours, and how you both made everyone feel so welcome. We are all richer for the time we spent together. You never know what the future will bring so it’s good to remember the happy times.
Brian Brodersen
Oh my gosh; sorry I meant Merrill Ave. Tempest is my current address.
Louise Lees
To the Mallette Family,
My sincerest condolences I have only found out about Dave. I have know him my whole life. He was an incredible man. xoxo
Suvendran (Bayshore-Armel)
My heart felt condolences to David’s family. RIP and god bless him
Rebecca Wellum
My sincerest condolences to the family on the passing of such a kindred spirit and kind man. I had the pleasure of getting to know Dave at work. He was always very accommodating and helpful to me. He loved to tell me about his kids and I always admired how front and centre he was with some of our key employee resource groups. Take comfort in that he loved his family so fully, and that particular joy permeated his entire life. Rest in peace good man.
Bill Best (Bayshore/Armel)
I was shocked to learn of Dave’s passing. We had worked to together years ago and when our paths would cross in recent years, he was always engaging, interested and chatty. A happy guy with a great sense of humour. I enjoyed seeing his Facebook posts, always active and kind. He will truly be missed but not forgotten. My heartfelt sympathies to the Mallette family.
Bill Papoutsis
I just learned about Dave’s untimely passing and am deeply saddened. My sincere condolences to his family as words cannot truly describe what an incredible loss of such a wonderful person means to everyone who had the privilege to have met him. While I was at ADP Canada, Dave was a role model, a father figure and a genuine friend who you could immediately trust. He was always looking out for others and his passion for what he put his energy into was constantly on display. I was grateful for our friendship, for the pleasure of knowing him and will miss him. My his memory be eternal.
Don and Jane Gregor
I was down in the city for a meeting today and heard that Dave had passed away last year. Jane and I were at Dave and Jess wedding at the Legion which was a great affair. Dave was part of the Retail Group with me at Royal LePage along with the two Steves, Michi and Laurel Ann. Sorry to have missed the news and funeral.
Dave Houghton
Wow…did not know Dave died, crappy. My brother Mark was a close friend of yours and would have been devastated had he been still alive. Too bad we never met, none of his friends contacted me with any sort of condolences? Heard you stepped up at Marks Memorial, Thank you. So sorry for the loss. Kind regards. Dave Houghton.